Principles by Ray Dalio is one of my favorite books. I think everyone would benefit from reading it.
The book is divided into three parts:
To start, I'd just read part 2. That's what Derek Sivers, who also really liked the book — "I wanted to highlight almost every paragraph" — and even Dalio himself at one point recommend.
This book is good, but can give off a platitude vibe, which turns some people off.
So I figured I'd give a few examples of ideas that I've personally found useful. If these seem intriguing, might want to check out the rest of my notes (further below) or read the book.
One idea that was useful to me when writing LTCWFF was the idea of "levels".
Reality exists at different levels and each of them gives you different but valuable perspectives. ... We are constantly seeing things at different levels and navigating between them, whether we know it or not, whether we do it well or not... For example, you can navigate levels to move from your values to what you do to realize them on a day-to-day basis.
> I want meaningful work that's full of learning.
>> I want to be a doctor.
>>> I need to go to medical school.
>>>> I need to get good grades in the sciences.
>>>>> I need to stay home tonight and study.
According to Dalio, when a line of reason has gotten jumbled, it's often because the speaker is jumping around different levels without showing how they connect.
That's why, when conveying information, it's important to:
Of course, I had always known that in theory, but explicitly keeping it in mind has probably made my thinking and writing better.
Believable people are those who have repeatedly and accomplished the thing in question — strong track record of at least 3 successes — and have good, logical explanations of how they did it when probed.
If you have a different view with someone who is more believable than you, you should make clear you're trying to understand their perspective.
Dalio recommends thinking of yourself as a worker operating in a machine that you've designed, and says it's important to distinguish between you as the designer of your machine, and you as a worker within your machine.
"It's much more important that you are a good designer/manager of your life than a good worker in it."
That's not to say being a good worker isn't important (Dalio also says good work habits are way underrated), but it's not as important.
"To be successful, the "designer/manager you" has to be objective about what the "worker you" is really like, not believing in him more than he deservers, or putting him in jobs he shouldn't be in. Instead of having this strategic perspective, most people operate emotionally and in the moment; their lives are a series of undirected emotional experiences, going from one thing to the next."
This is one of my favorite concepts, one I've found particularly useful.
For example: for a long time, I had been getting up early (and staying up late) to hack away on side projects (which I always hoped would eventually take off) but found once we had our second child that that was really hard to do.
So I decided to go down to 80% at my day job to spend one day a week working on my own stuff. I viewed this as a "designer level you" move, vs just continuing to hack along harder and harder (and with less and less sleep) in my role as "worker me". My first project made more than 20% of my old salary, and now I'm working on my things full time.
See full notes below for more info/summary.
Navigating levels principle (5.4) sort of ironic, because (though principles are all good) sort of feels like we're jumping levels here, particularly from chapter to chapter.
One possibility: starts with 1 (embrace reality and deal with it) by (going one level lower) doing 2 (5 step process).
Then chapters 3-5 (open-mindedness, wired, decisions) are a way to do 2 (the five step process) better.
Could potentially reorganize around themes, for example:
My favorite principles/concepts:
Not as new to me personally but def critical:
What to do when you don't have the type of access to experts etc Dalio is talking about?
It's one thing for Ray Dalio, who can talk to Bill Gates or the Dali Lama, but what am I believable at and what believable people do I have access to?
Full notes start here.
Dalio thinks of life where each problem is a puzzle. The reward is principle that helps avoid same sort of problem in future. He's written down the principles that've worked for him and put them into this book.
Nothing more important than understanding how reality works and how to deal with it.
dreams + reality + determination = successful life
Most people fight seeing what's true when it's not what they want.
It's more important to understand/deal with bad stuff because the good stuff will take care of itself.
Both are invaluable for rapid learning and effective change.
They make what you are doing, and why, clear to yourself and others.
Being radically transparent easier the more you do it. It's not about talking about everyone's secrets, but being transparent with opinions of each other and how world works.
Both bring more meaningful work and meaningful relationships.
Dalio spends some time talking about how nature "evolves for the good of the whole", which I'm not sure I really buy. I personally think nature/the universe is pretty indifferent to what's "good".
But I think Dalio is basically saying: learning, progressing, working towards goals is point/what will give you the most satisfaction out of life. I do agree with this
It's nice to think about because Dalio has accomplished so much, if he's still improving and happy doing it at $18B or whatever, pretty much should work for anyone.
Dalio: thrilled to be infinitesimally small part of whole; finds reality and how nature works beautiful. Goal is to simply evolve and contribute in some tiny way while he's here and is what he is.
One of nature's practical lessons: adaptation through rapid trial and error invaluable.
Realize you're everything and nothing: everything to yourself, and nothing in the scheme of things.
It is a reality that each one of us is only one of about seven billion of our species alive today and that our species is only one of about 10 million species on our planet. Earth is just one of about 100 billion planets in our galaxy, which is just one of about two trillion galaxies in the universe. And our lifetimes are only about 1/3k of humanity's existence, which itself is only 1/20k billion of Earth's existence."
Dalio defines success as struggling and evolving as effectively as possible.
In other words, learning rapidly about oneself and environment, then changing to improve.
"Love and work are the cornerstones of our humanness." - Freud
Your work doesn't have to be a job, but Dalio thinks it's better if it is.
A fundamental law of nature: in order to gain strength, have to push limits, which is painful.
This is especially true about confronting harsh reality of own imperfections.
No pain no gain.
Stuff won't sustain happiness.
There's no avoiding pain, esp w/ ambitious goals.
Developing reflexive reaction to pain that causes you to reflect on it rather than avoid it will lead to rapid learning/evolving. Later in book Dalio says this is his most impactful habit
Most people have hard time reflecting while in pain and pay attention to other things when pain passes. But at a minimum, you should try to remember to reflect after it passes.
You're not maximizing potential unless you are:
You get benefits from both failing and breaking through. If you do the whole process successfully, you will keep ascending in life (Dalio has a loop like drawing he likes).
It gets easier over time. First, you realize things seem bigger than they are when seeing up close.
Also, higher you ascend, more you realize most things are "just another one of those".
Go to pain rather than avoiding it.
You'll evolve faster when comfortable operating at some level of pain.
The pain is the signal/what you need to seek out; like exercising.
When you're do it right, you'll be glad to:
Note this loop/feedback/operating at pain thing isn't just a matter of dealing with success (seeking out harder and harder goals), but major failures too, which will happen.
People who overweigh 1st order consequences rarely reach their goals.
Example: temptations like shitty food or avoiding pain from exercise.
Mostly, life gives you so many decisions to make and so many opportunities to recover from mistakes that you can have a great life.
Whatever circumstances are, will be more likely to succeed and find happiness if you take responsibility for making decisions well.
Think of yourself as a machine operating within a machine; and know you have ability to alter machines to produce better outcomes.
Distinguish between you as the designer of your machine, and you as a worker with your machine.
It's much more important that you are a good designer/manager of your life than a good worker in it.
"To be successful, the "designer/manager you" has to be objective about what the "worker you" is really like, not believing in him more than he deservers, or putting him in jobs he shouldn't be in. Instead of having this strategic perspective, most people operate emotionally and in the moment; their lives are a series of undirected emotional experiences, going from one thing to the next."
Get over ego driven emotions re: people watching you struggle (anger, embarrassment, defensiveness, etc.
You have four choices when encountering weaknesses:
If you're open-minded and determined, you can get pretty much whatever you want.
No matter what you're like, many paths will be suitable. If a particular path closes, just need to find another good one
In the continuum of savoring life/making an impact, dalio wanted both.
Getting more out of life not just a matter of working harder at it, it's a matter of working effectively.
Have to decide to what extent you will put interests of others above your own, and which others. Will do either consciously or subconsciously, so should think about it.
Have to do this fast, continuously and iteratively, setting goals higher and higher.
Import to do all of these one at a time and in order.
Have to prioritize, but good news is can have much more than nec to be happy.
goals != desires
Desires are things you want (like junk food or sleeping in) that can prevent you from reaching goals.
Don't rule out a goal because you think it's unattainable; if you're limiting your goals to what you know you can achieve that means the bar is way too low.
Need: flexibility, self-accountability.
Note: not always about moving forward, dealing well with setbacks/tragedy can be goal too.
Each problem an opportunity, essential to bring to surface
Don't mistake cause of problem with problem.
Example: can't get enough sleep (potential cause) vs performing poorly in job (the problem).
Be specific and precise in identifying them.
Prioritize and work on larger, important (to you) problems.
Once you identify a problem, don't tolerate it.
Focus on what is before what to do about it.
Moving too quickly to a solution is common mistake.
Root causes manifest themselves over and over again in problems.
Distinguish proximate causes (verbs) from root causes (adjectives)
Can only truly solve problems by removing root causes.
Replay how you got to this point, then figure out what you have to do going forward.
Think about outcomes produced by some machine, think how to change your machine (again thinking about worker you and designer you).
Remember there are likely many paths to achieving goals; just need to find one.
Think of things like a movie script, visualizing who will do what through time.
Should go from big picture to details w/ timelines.
Write down plan to see and measure progress against, including tasks. Remember tasks, narrative, goals all different.
Making a good plan doesn't take that long, but too many people don't do it at all.
Great planners who don't execute go no where.
Important to remember the connections between tasks and goals they are meant to achieve. Don't lose sight of the "why".
Good work habits are vastly underrated.
Establish clear metrics to make sure you're following plan. If you're not hitting targets, that's another problem to diagnose and solve.
Note the process is iterative.
Process is both synthesizing (first three steps) and shaping (designing solutions and implementing).
You probably can't do all of these steps well.
Good thing to do: rely on others.
Everyone has at least one of these that they're not that great at that stands in the way of success, figure out which it is for you and deal with it .
Two biggest barriers to good decision making are ego and blind spots.
Make it hard to objectively see what is true about you and your circumstances and make best possible decisions by getting most out of others.
Have two "yous" that fight to control you
Lower level
Higher level
Can see it w/ people getting angry for themselves.
Even more of a mess when two yous fight with someone else with their yous. Lower levels are like attack dogs even when higher levels want to figure things out
Blind spot barrier is more in terms of ways we think/view things, what we might miss.
Both lead to people disagreeing and people remaining convinced they're right.
Both also come up with how people deal with their own problems.
Too common to blindly spin up against blind spots/ego when solving problems.
Instead should:
Radical open mindedness is motivated by genuine worry you might not be seeing choices optimally
Requires you replace attachment to always being right with joy of learning what's true.
A shift towards "higher level you" .
Ability to deal with things you don't know is more important than what you do know.
Decision making is two step process: take in info open-mindedly, then decide (see also section 5).
Don't worry about looking good/exposing your ignorance/weaknesses.
Remember looking for best answer; not best answer you can come up with yourself.
Distinguish between arguing and seeking to understand. Both have their places:
Believable people are those who have repeatedly and accomplished the thing in question — strong track record of at least 3 successes — and have good, logical explanations of how they did it when probed.
If you have a different view with someone who is more believable than you, you should make clear you're trying to understand their perspective.
If you're more believable, politely remind the other person of that.
Goal of thoughtful disagreement is not to convince other party you are right, but to find out what's true and decide what to do about it
Both sides should be motivated by genuine fear of missing important perspectives.
Need to be reasonable, calm, collegial, respectful.
Most disagreements aren't threats, more opportunities for learning.
Two good tactics:
All this is time consuming but worth it.
Important to prioritize what you spend time on and with who. There are lots of people to disagree with, unproductive to do so with all of them.
Explore ideas with most believable people you have access to.
Don't waste time disagreeing past point of diminishing returns.
Why doesn't thoughtful disagreement happen more? Because most people instinctively reluctant to disagree.
If two people are at a restaurant and one says "I like the food" the other is more likely to agree, even if not true.
This reluctance is lower level you's mistaken interpetation of disagreement as conflict.
That's why it's not easy: need to teach yourself art of having exchanges in ways that don't trigger reactions in yourself and others.
Smart people who can thoughtfully disagree are best teachers.
Also good to have two knowledgeable people thoughtfully disagree while you watch.
Also ok to turn over decision making when subjects are too complex for you to understand. You're giving into lower level self if you need to make your own decisions, even when not qualified.
Close minded people:
Open minded people
Regularly use pain as guide towards reflection.
Mental pain often from being too attached to an idea when person or event comes along to challenge it.
Make open-mindedness a habit. Try to consistently use anger/frustration as cues for being more thoughtful.
Know blind spots, helps to:
If a number of different believable people say you are doing something wrong and you are the only one who doesn't see it that way, assume you're biased
Meditate.
Be evidence based.
Realize at some point it's better to stop fighting for your view, and have faith in your decision-making process and accept what believable others think is best. Not doing this is dangerously arrogant.
More open-mindedness doesn't mean losing assertiveness. It should actually increase confidence because it increases odds of arriving at correct decision.
Are you willing to fight to find out what's true?
Do believe it's essential to your well being?
Do you need to find out if you're doing something wrong that is standing in the way of achieving your goals?
If no, accept that you'll never live up to your potential.
Most attributes are double-edged swords, can both help and hurt, depending on application.
Important to know how others and yourself are wired.
Desire for meaningful work and relationships is genetically programmed.
Large parts of our brains don't do logical things.
Your subconscious from the "two yous" thing from earlier isn't just animalistic and something that needs to be suppressed and overruled. It can also be source of creativity/good ideas. Many people believe best way to learn is to just cram more and more into your conscious mind and make it work harder, but often counter productive.
But don't want to just immediately act on subconscious things, should examine them with concious mind and look at them logically. Writing things down is helpful.
Again, the most constant struggle between thinking and feeling.
Amygdala (feelings, inner you, come quicker and in spurts, then subsides) vs prefrontal cortex (logical, outer you)
The biggest difference between people who guide their own personal evolution and achieve their goals and those who don't is the former reflect on their amygdala hijackings and put in context of what they really want.
Greatest challenge: having higher level you manage lower level you.
Best way of doing that: consciously develop habits that will make doing things good for you habitual.
Good habits get you to do what your "upper-level you" wants Bad controlled by lower level you, stand in way of upper.
Habit facts:
In practice, -if you really want to change, best thing to do is choose which habits to acquire/get rid of, then go about doing that.
Dalio suggests write down 3 most harmful habits, pick one and commit to breaking it. Or acquire a good one if you want. Either way this will be very impactful to your life.
Dalio's best habit: using pain to trigger quality reflections.
Bridgewater uses briggs meyer, workplace personality inventory, team dimensions profile, stratified systems theory
Probably more interesting if you're building a team or hiring or something.
Dalio: having spent time with richest, most powerful people in world, beyond a basic level, there is no correlation between happiness and conventional markers of success.
A carpenter who derives deepest satisfaction from working with wood can easily have a life as good or better than president of US.
Having right people in right roles in support of goal is important.
Treat lower/subconscious you with kindness, don't nec need to fight with it all the time.
Decision making processes more are more subconscious and complex than commonly understood.
Remind yourself it's never harmful to at least hear an opposing point of view.
Deciding is the process of choosing which knowledge you should draw upon.
Depends both particulars of this situation and broader knowledge. Weigh first order consequences against 2nd and 3rd order consequences
Never seize on first available option, no matter how good it seems, before you've asked questions and explored.
Dalio used to literally ask: am i learning? have i learned enough yet that it's time for deciding?
Learning comes down to two things:
Faced all the time with infinite number of things that come at you. Dalio calls them dots.
Need to be able to tell which dots are important and which aren't.
Some people just collect a ton of observations and opinions like lint.
One of most important decisions you can make is who you ask questions of:
Everything seems bigger (more important) in the moment than it will in hindsight. For this reason, sometimes helpful to defer decisions.
New is overvalued relative to great.
Don't overfit limited numbers of dots.
Keep in mind both rates of change and absolute levels; can be "getting better" while still being way below the bar.
Everything important in your life needs to be on a trajectory to be above the bar and headed towards excellent at appropriate pace.
Be imprecise. Understand what "by and large" means.
Remember 80/20 rule, understand what key 20% is.
Be an imperfectionist:
Reality exists at different levels; each gives valuable perspectives.
Constantly seeing things at different levels and navigating between them.
> I want meaningful work that's full of learning.
>> I want to be a doctor.
>>> I need to go to medical school.
>>>> I need to get good grades in the sciences.
>>>>> I need to stay home tonight and study.
Pay attention to conversations, we tend to move between levels when we talk.
Use the terms "above the line" and "below the line" to establish which level a conversation is on.
When line of reasoning is jumbled, it's often because speaker has gotten caught up in below the line details without connecting them back to major points .
Only go below the line if it's necessary to illustrate something about a major points, and make sure you synthesize and tie things back.
Decisions need to be made at appropriate level and consistent across levels. Can't have 12 sausages and a beer for breakfast every morning and live a healthy life.
In other words: need to constantly connect and reconcile data you're gathering to get a complete picture.
Summary:
Do all of that with radical open mindedness.
Another higher vs lower self principle.
Fundamentals of good decision making are relatively simple and timeless
"Until you make the subconscious concious, it'll direct your life and you will call it fate." - Carl Jung
Raising your probability of being right is valuable no matter what your probability of being right already is.
Knowing when not to bet is as important as knowing what bets are worth making.
Best choices are ones that have more pros than cons, not the ones that don't have ANY cons.
Some decisions best made after acquiring more info, others immediately.
All of your "must-dos" must be above bar before you do your "like-to-dos".
Prob won't have time to deal with unimportant things, better than not having time to do with important thinks.
Don't mistake possibilities for probabilities.
Get rid of irrelevant details so essential things and relationships between them stand out.
Principles are a way to both simplify and improve decision making.
Realize almost all "cases at hand" are just "another one of those".
Figure out which it is, then apply well thought out principles for dealing with it.
Will allow you to massively reduce the number of decisions you have to make.
What Dalio does:
Identifying which "one of those" a situation is is like id'ing an animal.
Can be challenging since many since many cases are hybrids, in which case you have to weigh principles against each other.
If disagreeing, see if you can start by agreeing which principles should be used to make a decision.
Sometimes can use to test how decision would have worked in past/other simulations.
Not super practical, prob more relevant for investment (and maybe fantasy football if you have a sweet model) decisions.